“Mujhe logon se nafrat nahi hui,
-Zulfikar Inamdar
bas har kisi ko apna kehne ki jaldi khatam ho gayi.
Dil aaj bhi wahi hai—mohabbat bhi karta hai, bharosa bhi;
bas ab ek baat seekh gaya hai:
jo waqt badalne par bhi na badle,
rishta asal mein sirf wahi hota hai.”
“Nafrat Nahi… Bas Bharosa Thak Gaya Hai”:
Arz kiya hai…
Mujhe kisi se nafrat nahi hai,
Na kisi ke liye dil mein baddua hai,
Bas ab har muskurate chehre ko dekh kar
Use apna maan lene ki
Woh purani aadat nahi rahi.
Pehle koi pyaar se baat karta tha
To dil khol deta tha,
Koi apna kehta tha
To sach mein apna maan leta tha.
Kisi ne kaha—
“Main hoon na…”
To yakeen kar leta tha.
Tab kahan maloom tha
Ke kuch jumle dil se nahi,
Sirf waqt guzarne ke liye bole jaate hain.
Maine rishton ko
Kabhi faayde aur nuksaan mein nahi tola,
Jise apna maana
Uske liye jitna ban saka karta gaya.
Kabhi apna waqt diya,
Kabhi apna sukoon,
Kabhi apni zaroorat peeche rakhi,
Kabhi apni khwahish…
Aur kai baar
Apnon ki khushi bachane ke liye
Apna dard bhi chhupa liya.
Mujhe lagta tha—
Rishte hisaab se nahi,
ehsaas se chalte hain.
Aaj bhi maanta hoon…
Bas ab ye bhi samajh gaya hoon
Ke ehsaas dono taraf ho
Tabhi rishta zinda rehta hai.
Ek insaan akela
Kitni der tak rishta uthayega?
Ek hi shakhs kab tak phone kare,
Kab tak haal poochhe,
Kab tak narazgi door kare,
Kab tak jhukta rahe…
Aur phir bhi khud ko samjhata rahe—
“Apne hain… koi baat nahi.”
Baat hoti hai.
Har baar hoti hai.
Bas hum kehna chhod dete hain.
Pehle dil dukhta tha
To sawaal karta tha—
“Maine kya galat kiya?”
Ab dil dukhta hai
To khamosh ho jaata hoon.
Kyunki waqt ne ek baat
Bahut achhi tarah samjha di—
Har badalte hue insaan se
apni galti poochhna zaroori nahi.
Kabhi kabhi kami aap mein nahi hoti,
Bas saamne wale ki zaroorat
Khatam ho chuki hoti hai.
Aur ye sach
Thoda kadwa zaroor hai…
Magar bahut kuch samjha deta hai.
Maine kuch logon ko
Tab badalte dekha
Jab unhe meri zaroorat nahi rahi.
Kuch ko tab
Jab unhe mujhse behtar saath mil gaya.
Kuch log waise hi rahe,
Bas meri aankhon se
Unke liye rakha hua bharosa utar gaya.
Tab samajh aaya—
Chehre har baar nahi badalte,
kabhi kabhi bas hamari nazar saaf ho jaati hai.
Isliye ab main
Kisi ko bura kehne mein jaldi nahi karta.
Ho sakta hai
Uski apni majboori ho,
Apni kahani ho,
Apni wajah ho.
Magar uski wajah samajhne ka matlab
Ye bhi nahi
Ke main har baar
Apna dil uske pairon mein rakh doon.
Maaf kar dena alag baat hai,
dobara wahi jagah dena alag.
Ye fark
Mujhe waqt ne sikhaya hai.
Ab koi door jaana chahe
To main uska haath kheenchkar nahi rokta.
Kyunki jo dil se rehna chahta hai
Use baar-baar rokna nahi padta,
Aur jiska dil ja chuka ho
Uska jism paas rakhkar bhi
Kya haasil?
Main rishton mein
Qaid nahi chahta…
Qurbat chahta hoon.
Aisa saath
Jahan majboori se nahi,
Mohabbat se raha jaaye.
Jahan mera phone
Farz samajhkar nahi uthaya jaaye,
Balki meri awaaz sunkar
Dil ko achha lage.
Jahan main khamosh ho jaun
To koi meri khamoshi ko
Guroor na samjhe…
Bas itna poochh le—
“Dil bhaari hai kya?”
Bahut badi khwahish nahi hai.
Bas rishta aisa ho
Jahan har waqt ye darr na rahe
Ke aaj sab theek hai…
Kal pata nahi.
Kyunki ab umr ka woh hissa nahi
Ke roz naye log dhoondhun,
Roz naye rishte banaun,
Roz kisi ko apni kahani
Shuru se sunaun.
Ab to dil chahta hai
Jo chand log hain
Wahi sachche rahen.
Baat roz na ho,
Magar apnapan roz rahe.
Mulaqat mahino baad ho,
Magar gale milte hi lage—
Beech mein waqt guzra hai,
rishta nahi.
Aise log kam hon
To bhi chalega.
Mujhe bheed nahi chahiye.
Mujhe woh ek dost zyada qeemti lagta hai
Jo mushkil waqt mein
Bina poochhe paas aa jaaye,
Banisbat un sau logon ke
Jo achhe waqt mein
Tasveer ke liye kandhe par haath rakh dein.
Zindagi ne ye bhi sikhaya—
Rishton ki ginti nahi,
unki gehraai insaan ko ameer banati hai.
Isliye ab meri zindagi mein
Log shayad kam hain…
Magar jo hain
Unke liye dil mein jagah sachchi hai.
Aur jo chale gaye
Unse bhi koi shikayat nahi.
Kuch logon ne mohabbat sikhayi,
Kuch ne sabr,
Kuch ne bharosa diya,
Aur kuch ne sikhaya
Ke bharosa kahan nahi karna.
Har kisi ne
Kuch na kuch diya.
Isliye main apne guzre hue rishton ko
Baddua nahi deta.
Bas unhe wahi chhod deta hoon
Jahan unhone mera haath chhoda tha.
Na peeche jaakar sawaal karta hoon,
Na aage jaakar shikayat.
Kuch jawaab waqt de deta hai,
aur kuch jawaabon ki zaroorat
waqt khatam kar deta hai.
Ab main pehle se
Thoda kam bolta hoon,
Thoda zyada samajhta hoon,
Jaldi apna nahi maanta,
Aur kisi ke chale jaane par
Khud ko dosh dena bhi chhod diya hai.
Ye sakhti nahi…
Ye tajurba hai.
Dil aaj bhi narm hai,
Mohabbat aaj bhi utni hi karta hai,
Bas ab dil ke darwaaze
Har dastak par nahi khulte.
Aur sach kahun…
Mujhe apne andar
Ye badlav bura bhi nahi lagta.
Kyunki pehle main
Har rishta bachate-bachate
Khud ko kho deta tha.
Ab samajh gaya hoon—
Jo rishta bachane ke liye
aapko baar-baar khud ko todna pade,
shayad use bachane se pehle
khud ko bachana zaroori hai.
Main aaj bhi apnon ke liye
Dil se khada hoon.
Aaj bhi kisi dost ki awaaz mein
Pareshaani mehsoos ho
To dil bechain ho jaata hai.
Aaj bhi koi kahe
“Mujhe tumhari zaroorat hai…”
To jitna ban sake
Saath dene ki koshish karta hoon.
Bas ek fark aa gaya hai—
Pehle main har kisi ko apna samajhta tha,
ab jo apna sabit ho
use kabhi gair nahi samajhta.
Aur agar koi poochhe—
“Logon se itne door kyun rehne lage ho?”
To main muskura kar kahunga—
“Door nahi hua hoon…
bas ab dil tak pahunchne ka raasta
thoda lamba kar diya hai.”
Kyunki mujhe kisi se nafrat nahi…
Bas itna samajh gaya hoon—
Har saath umr bhar ka nahi hota,
Har wada sachcha nahi hota,
Har muskurahat apnapan nahi hoti…
Magar iska matlab ye bhi nahi
ke duniya mein sachche log nahi hote.
Hote hain…
Bahut kam hote hain.
Aur jab mil jaayein na—
Unhe sambhal kar rakhna.
Kyunki is badalti hui duniya mein
Woh shakhs jo aapke halaat, haisiyat, waqt
aur faayde ke saath na badle…
Woh sirf rishta nahi hota,
zindagi ki kamaai hota hai. ❤️
